I love this family. They are an amazing Ukrainian family trying to live their lives for the Lord. I was thrilled and blessed to get to know them one afternoon.
Natasha and Viktor, the parents of a dozen or so children are not your typical family. They have adopted many of their children and are fostering quite a few too. In Ukraine this is a rare thing and I admire them for what they are doing.
Last year they lost one a little girl they were fostering when she drowned in the river chasing after the family goat. Naturally, it devastated the family-- but as a result they are considering allowing a bridge to be built so that the river can be crossed during the winter time to prevent another drowning. At the same time, the high river keeps the riff-raff off their property. You can see their dilemma and with finances a huge obstacle it may be a long time before a bridge is ever built.
The Semochkov family believes in homeschooling and often resorts to that in the winter when they can't cross the river to get the kids to school. They are disappointed in the school system and think it does a disservice to their children to send them to public school when they see that the kids do so much better when they are taught by Natasha. I could feel her frustration at the government as she vented her concerns. After school the kids learn scripture, take the cows to graze, and tend to the chickens.
During our visit Julia and Sasha went outside to explore. It didn't take long for Sasha to bring in a hurt bird. Soon that bird got loose and went behind the couch.
I could tell Natasha was used to this sort of thing. She instructed Sasha to take the bird outside.
During our visit we talked about many things.
"People here treat each other with little respect. One farmer will inject his cows with hormones to make them grow bigger and faster and then sell it to their neighbor. That same farmer will then come to us and buy our beef because we don't inject them with hormones. Why can't they eat what they are raising to sell to others?"
As the focus of the conversation turned towards David's health, Natasha suggested that she knew exactly what he needed to help his leg circulation. She brought out two jars of leeches and explained how she used them to help the blood flow in her knees. They healed her and many of the neighbors who come seeking her leech therapy.
For now, David passed.
Natasha insisted we stay for lunch-- a beef and potato dish with bread and honey. Natasha is a wonderful cook! In fact she is quite the homemaker all the way around.
We talked about more personal stuff too and found great comfort in how much we have in common. I can see her and her husband encouraging new foster families down the road.
The Semochkovs raise cattle and bees for a living. Here you can see the bee homes. They believe that honey has great medicinal value so they eat it regularly themselves.
The last time David visited the Semochkovs he said this garage was the size of the white cement you see in the picture. The oldest son is building his house for him and his wife so that they could move out of their parent's house.
Here is the Semochkov home. It is good size. If I had to estimate I would say it is around 2600 square feet.
On the way back to ROJ we stopped at the Belagorsk open market for tomatoes and clothes soap.
As we drove home, I took this picture of the one monument I saw.
These apartment buildings out in the middle of nowhere looked pretty cool with all of their different colors. So... I took a picture.
9 inspiring thoughts:
Please remind me -- Who is David?
Hugs,
JEB
I had to laugh when you mentioned the deceit going on amongst the two neighbors regarding injecting the cattle with hormones since nearly all meat in the US is injected with hormones. It's very sad that we have to pay premium prices to ensure we get meat that is NOT injected with hormones and we have a government that not only encourages such injections but claims that it's perfectly healthy for people and cattle alike. It's pretty bad when the common man in a less economically stable country realizes the wisdom of hormone free meat, yet our government brainwashes the masses here to believe that these toxins are an improvement for us. :(
Ooh! I got excited there when you started talking about a leg circulation cure. I have poor circulation in one leg. However...leeches...ick. I suppose though, God made everything for some good purpose. And, I've heard that about honey, too.
Hi! Our church sponsors families who adopt children from the Ukraine if you want to know I can put you in touch with the pastor. Ukraines adopting orphans is rare but is happening. But many Ukraines do not adopt because the adoption fees are way to high. Many of the families we know who live in the Ukraine can not afford the $24,000 adoption fee for an infant child and the orphanages can not reduce the fees because they need the program fee money to feed and care for the children who are older and special needs who are not getting adopted.I think the family you shared about seem wonderful. In the Ukraine the families who I know who adopt do not get adoption subsidies or medical assistance cards to cover medical needs of the child. Once these family adopts the child the family is responsible for all the needs of the child not the state. Many families can barely meet their own needs in this depressed economy let alone the needs of a orphan. Thanks for sharing, Pat
JEb, David is the founder of ROJ and the man in the picture.
Autismomma, you are so right. One thing about Ukraine that I love is that even McDonalds tastes better with real sugar instead of corn syrup in their Coca-Cola and the beef tasting beefier than here in the states. I guess it is just a matter of time before that changes.
Hey Jefferson, the way she talked up the leeches even I would be willing to give them a try if I needed. :)
Pat, I didn't realize that Ukranian families had to pay that much for an adoption. I thought it was free for them unless it was a private adoption.
Hi!I know a couple of women from the church who looked into to this and they said the adoptions fee were to high. Pat
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