I have a place on my kitchen wall that is currently occupied by the kids' artwork that I would love to hang a big chalkboard. Not only do I miss a place to write chores, but I long for something to write on when I help with the kids' homework, do our devotionals, and need a quick place to write something to add to my grocery list.
John wants me to get a dry erase board if I get anything at all... I have in my mind a chalkboard.
Whatever it is, I do want it to look somewhat pretty-- after all, it is going up in the kitchen not a school room or office.
I have thought of painting the wall but am afraid that the texture will forever be different on that wall. Any suggestions of great sites that I can buy a chalkboard?
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Feels Good to Get Organized!
I didn't want to make a big deal about it, but Dennis had lost two pounds according to the scale when he was weighed on the day of his last surgery.
Good thing I didn't, because he is well on his weigh to gaining it back! He now easily polishes off two waffles and then some! And he has graduated to a booster seat! I am also really working with him on table manners so that he doesn't need to use a bib. He still gets messy-- but I remind myself that he is only three!
As usual, one morning, I had excused myself to go quickly shower so that I could take Adam to school.
As usual, one morning, I had excused myself to go quickly shower so that I could take Adam to school.
When I came down stairs I saw Adam with Alex playing Guitar Hero. It warmed my heart.
I don't know about you, but I have Spring Fever, I think! I have been getting rid of things that we don't use, cleaning out closets, and out doing yard work! I am so ready for Spring!
Our island was long ago taken over by lids and food containers to the point where our cupboard doors would not shut. I vowed to get rid of everything that didn't have a lid and get rid of any container that didn't fit under the island. So much didn't fit because all of the food containers that are under the island have the lid on them so they don't stack. Still, we have more than enough-- and most importantly we are organized!
Solicitating organization tips-- I could sure use some!
Friday, January 29, 2010
IEPS are not always about What Services your Child Receives
Homework seems to be taking longer these days. Normally I am all for it, and I don't mind sitting with the kids and going over it, but right now three of them are doing fractions and I am losing my mind. Hats off to those who have the ability to homeschool and enjoy it--- I just don't have the patience for it nor the gift. They all seem to be stuck on reducing fractions and no matter how I work it out for them, they just can't see without lots of explaining that 24 and 30 can be divided by 6 to reduce to 4/5. Ugh! Still, I will continue along keeping the faith that I will get better as I practice. I have to remember that it is only my fault that I am frustrated-- something I want to work on.
On another note, I attended Alex's IEP meeting the other day. Having been down the road of fighting tooth and nail for services for my kids and winning (back in 2006)--I all too quickly realized that there was a downside. While I can boast that yes, I got my kids the services I felt they needed, it came at a great expense. All relations with school staff seemed to be distant after receiving the services that I never felt like my children or I benefited from the services outside of the therapy sessions mandated by the IEP. It was incredibly hard to get support so that I would know how to bring some of the therapy they were receiving into our home.
So this time, I didn't push things. And of course that meant that Alex's true abilities were stretched a bit to make him sound further along than he is, and as a result he didn't have PT or OT added to his IEP. Yet, the PT and the OT have both agreed to come once a month for a consultation. This will be a time for the teacher and I to ask questions, get ideas, ask about progress, and make sure that Alex's environment is working with him and not against. The OT gave me a Handwriting Without Tears workbook and some special two-sided short crayons to strengthen his pencil grip. She also gave me tons of great ideas all of which I can work with Alex at home. The PT said she would work on getting Alex a pair of forearm crutches that are a better fit, and showing me the proper way he should be using them. The IEP team also said that Alex is making tremendous growth because of how much I am working with him at home. This is something that we did all agree on, and frankly it felt really good to be encouraged for his progress. If Alex was not making such amazing progress I think I would have pushed for the services and I think they would have been more willing to offer them.
Setting aside my own observations on how school districts work to keep the costs of providing services for IEPs down, I must say that I still think Alex is getting amazing help through the pre-school that he is attending. That, coupled with my dedication to keep working with him at home, makes me pretty confident that he is going to do great despite him not getting the OT or PT services I had originally set forth to get him.
The biggest thing that I wanted above all was to maintain a good relationship with these ladies who I have to see on a regular basis and most of all who Alex will be in closer relationship with everyday. That was achieved and then some. Honestly, I don't think that any level of services amount to a hill of beans if the people providing the services don't have a good relationship with the parents. For the first time (after changing school districts when we moved) there is no tension with any of the school personnel and I feel that my kids' best interests are the schools' best interests as well-- even if it doesn't say it on the IEP.
Besides.... outside of school, Alex will be starting Physical therapy once a week. And the school helped me along with that process.
On another note, I attended Alex's IEP meeting the other day. Having been down the road of fighting tooth and nail for services for my kids and winning (back in 2006)--I all too quickly realized that there was a downside. While I can boast that yes, I got my kids the services I felt they needed, it came at a great expense. All relations with school staff seemed to be distant after receiving the services that I never felt like my children or I benefited from the services outside of the therapy sessions mandated by the IEP. It was incredibly hard to get support so that I would know how to bring some of the therapy they were receiving into our home.
So this time, I didn't push things. And of course that meant that Alex's true abilities were stretched a bit to make him sound further along than he is, and as a result he didn't have PT or OT added to his IEP. Yet, the PT and the OT have both agreed to come once a month for a consultation. This will be a time for the teacher and I to ask questions, get ideas, ask about progress, and make sure that Alex's environment is working with him and not against. The OT gave me a Handwriting Without Tears workbook and some special two-sided short crayons to strengthen his pencil grip. She also gave me tons of great ideas all of which I can work with Alex at home. The PT said she would work on getting Alex a pair of forearm crutches that are a better fit, and showing me the proper way he should be using them. The IEP team also said that Alex is making tremendous growth because of how much I am working with him at home. This is something that we did all agree on, and frankly it felt really good to be encouraged for his progress. If Alex was not making such amazing progress I think I would have pushed for the services and I think they would have been more willing to offer them.
Setting aside my own observations on how school districts work to keep the costs of providing services for IEPs down, I must say that I still think Alex is getting amazing help through the pre-school that he is attending. That, coupled with my dedication to keep working with him at home, makes me pretty confident that he is going to do great despite him not getting the OT or PT services I had originally set forth to get him.
The biggest thing that I wanted above all was to maintain a good relationship with these ladies who I have to see on a regular basis and most of all who Alex will be in closer relationship with everyday. That was achieved and then some. Honestly, I don't think that any level of services amount to a hill of beans if the people providing the services don't have a good relationship with the parents. For the first time (after changing school districts when we moved) there is no tension with any of the school personnel and I feel that my kids' best interests are the schools' best interests as well-- even if it doesn't say it on the IEP.
Besides.... outside of school, Alex will be starting Physical therapy once a week. And the school helped me along with that process.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Now Isn't That a Clever Analogy?
A woman was asked by a co-worker,
"What is it like to be a Christian?"
The co-worker replied,
"It is like being a pumpkin.
God picks you from the patch,
brings you in, and washes all the dirt off of you.
Then he cuts off the top and scoops out all the yucky stuff.
He removes the seeds of doubt, hate, greed, etc.,
and then He carves you a new smiling face
and puts His light inside of you to shine for all the world to see."
"What is it like to be a Christian?"
The co-worker replied,
"It is like being a pumpkin.
God picks you from the patch,
brings you in, and washes all the dirt off of you.
Then he cuts off the top and scoops out all the yucky stuff.
He removes the seeds of doubt, hate, greed, etc.,
and then He carves you a new smiling face
and puts His light inside of you to shine for all the world to see."
Snow Day for the Boys
Yesterday was a snow day at the boys' pre-school. I went with them to help out and take pictures of course! The boys had a ball!
And speaking of balls-- Alex loved throwing snow balls!
Dennis loved playing on this car as much as he loved playing in the snow.
It was awesome to watch Alex do everything the other kids were doing. He is so strong now, that he stood the whole time playing around these sinks full of snow.
Dennis enjoyed digging. The snow was a little too cold for him, but he didn't mind playing with it at a shovel's distance.
Today we are having an IEP meeting for Alex. It is to discuss the OT/PT's assessment of him. I am cautiously optimistic.
And speaking of balls-- Alex loved throwing snow balls!
Dennis loved playing on this car as much as he loved playing in the snow.
It was awesome to watch Alex do everything the other kids were doing. He is so strong now, that he stood the whole time playing around these sinks full of snow.
Dennis enjoyed digging. The snow was a little too cold for him, but he didn't mind playing with it at a shovel's distance.
Today we are having an IEP meeting for Alex. It is to discuss the OT/PT's assessment of him. I am cautiously optimistic.
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Worthy is the......
When I watched this video for the first time, I immediately knew it would become a favorite. As I have been studying the book of John, I find myself adoring Jesus like I never have before-- and it helps to visualize Him smiling, Him as a young boy, Him as the One who so sacrificially gave His life so that I can have eternal salvation.
Heaven was once described to me as a place where I would sit at Jesus' feet and adore Him over and over and over again. Until recently, I admit that didn't sound like eternal bliss to me. But then I began to study the book of John-- really study and my eyes began to be opened to what kind of person Jesus really is. I began to learn about Him, His characteristics, His humanity, His selflessness, His teachings--- and you know what? They are all good! And now I find myself yearning to be like Mary who sat at Jesus' feet and anointed Him with expensive perfume and then washed His feet with her hair. I mean-- how more humble can you get--- and yet she did this for Jesus! The man who took the time to have a personal relationship with everyone He met. He even healed the soldier who came to seize Him whose ear was cut off by one of the disciples. He cared then and He cares now-- and while I know this post will probably not even be read because of the title, I wanted to share because just like Jesus cares about you, I care about all of you too.
Does what you believe provide you with eternal salvation where your soul will live forever? Does your faith guarantee you a seat in the most amazing place for all of eternity? Is what you believe a solid rock for you to stand when waters are rising? Do you have a personal and intimate relationship with your God because He wants to know you, hear your troubles, and be involved in your daily life?
This post is not meant to offend-- but I feel that if I didn't share with you it would only show one thing-- how little I actually care about all of you. When I go to a new restaurant and it is out of this world delicious, I can't wait to tell others about it. When I find a great deal at a store, I can't wait to tell my friends and family. Well, I personally know God who I think is the most awesome thing that has ever happened to me-- and I am sharing His great news with you today!
Heaven was once described to me as a place where I would sit at Jesus' feet and adore Him over and over and over again. Until recently, I admit that didn't sound like eternal bliss to me. But then I began to study the book of John-- really study and my eyes began to be opened to what kind of person Jesus really is. I began to learn about Him, His characteristics, His humanity, His selflessness, His teachings--- and you know what? They are all good! And now I find myself yearning to be like Mary who sat at Jesus' feet and anointed Him with expensive perfume and then washed His feet with her hair. I mean-- how more humble can you get--- and yet she did this for Jesus! The man who took the time to have a personal relationship with everyone He met. He even healed the soldier who came to seize Him whose ear was cut off by one of the disciples. He cared then and He cares now-- and while I know this post will probably not even be read because of the title, I wanted to share because just like Jesus cares about you, I care about all of you too.
Does what you believe provide you with eternal salvation where your soul will live forever? Does your faith guarantee you a seat in the most amazing place for all of eternity? Is what you believe a solid rock for you to stand when waters are rising? Do you have a personal and intimate relationship with your God because He wants to know you, hear your troubles, and be involved in your daily life?
This post is not meant to offend-- but I feel that if I didn't share with you it would only show one thing-- how little I actually care about all of you. When I go to a new restaurant and it is out of this world delicious, I can't wait to tell others about it. When I find a great deal at a store, I can't wait to tell my friends and family. Well, I personally know God who I think is the most awesome thing that has ever happened to me-- and I am sharing His great news with you today!
Monday, January 25, 2010
Alex Has Been Practicing!
In the short amount of time since Alex has been with us-- he has made huge strides with his mobility. He is now mastering forearm crutches and his teachers report him wanting to do many things by himself-- a new found confidence has finally emerged!
Way to go Alex! We are so proud of you!
Way to go Alex! We are so proud of you!
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Where is Your Heart?
I live in America. I know that. And I know that it is a blessing to live in a country that is prosperous and allows me to freely express my relationship with God-- I know this. And this is where my family and friends live. I know that too. And I love them. And this where I get to drive my car everywhere instead of having to walk, have the best healthcare for my children, and basically never have to go without.... so why does my heart yearn daily for Ukraine? Not a day goes by that I do not think of this country.
I miss the smell. I miss the lifestyle. I miss the traditions. I miss the language. I miss the simplicity. But I mostly miss the people--- and the orphans.
I may live in America, but my heart is in Ukraine.
And is this a feeling you just live with to talk about or is it something that you act on?
How?
Also, what are your thoughts about missionaries who have children who are not all thrilled about being missionaries? Are the parents selfish? Kids are kids and really don't know what they want half the time anyway-- so should they even have a say?
And then I get to wondering if my heart would be someplace else had I never been to Ukraine. Yet, I have been to Russia and I have been to Mexico and while I think these two countries are also wonderful, I do not find myself thinking of them everyday.
So.......
Where is your heart?
P.S. If you really want to be inspired read about Katie's heart in Uganda.
I miss the smell. I miss the lifestyle. I miss the traditions. I miss the language. I miss the simplicity. But I mostly miss the people--- and the orphans.
I may live in America, but my heart is in Ukraine.
And is this a feeling you just live with to talk about or is it something that you act on?
How?
Also, what are your thoughts about missionaries who have children who are not all thrilled about being missionaries? Are the parents selfish? Kids are kids and really don't know what they want half the time anyway-- so should they even have a say?
And then I get to wondering if my heart would be someplace else had I never been to Ukraine. Yet, I have been to Russia and I have been to Mexico and while I think these two countries are also wonderful, I do not find myself thinking of them everyday.
So.......
Where is your heart?
P.S. If you really want to be inspired read about Katie's heart in Uganda.
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Lots of Pictures Tell A Story
Today we went back to the Occularist.
This was dinner the other night. So easy. Adam cut up a sirloin roast of some sort and I slow cooked it with some seasonings and olive oil drizzled over it. During the last hour of roasting, I added the carrots and potatoes. Right before taking it out of the oven I poured a jar of brown gravy over everything and let it simmer for five more minutes. Eating it made us feel so warm and cozy while the rain poured down outside.
Here is our scrapbook table. Rachel and I are decorating a few pages a week.
Here is Jonny the first night he was sick. He is finally getting better but is still running a fever.
Adam had a big Spanish project due the other day. It was really awesome to see how Rachel volunteered to help him with the note cards and pictures. Together, they busted it out in no time!
Caleb is so good on the drums for Guitar Hero-- I hope he decides to take drum lessons next year!
Dennis finally got his new eye! The gap on the inside is much smaller and the eye is more round. When I took this picture, he eye was still a bit puffy from having the eye taken in and out so many times while the Occularist was making adjustments-- but it is wonderful!
Gosh he is a handsome little guy!
I loved how Adam was playing with Alex.
Grandpa did a great job of entertaining Dennis. Dennis loved showing Grandpa his car collection.
More of Adam with Alex and Dennis
This was dinner the other night. So easy. Adam cut up a sirloin roast of some sort and I slow cooked it with some seasonings and olive oil drizzled over it. During the last hour of roasting, I added the carrots and potatoes. Right before taking it out of the oven I poured a jar of brown gravy over everything and let it simmer for five more minutes. Eating it made us feel so warm and cozy while the rain poured down outside.
Here is our scrapbook table. Rachel and I are decorating a few pages a week.
Here is Jonny the first night he was sick. He is finally getting better but is still running a fever.
Adam had a big Spanish project due the other day. It was really awesome to see how Rachel volunteered to help him with the note cards and pictures. Together, they busted it out in no time!
Caleb is so good on the drums for Guitar Hero-- I hope he decides to take drum lessons next year!
Sniffle--- this was the last pomegranate of the season. It was so delicious!
Rachel and Annalyn decided to do a puppet show. It provided hours of entertainment for many of the kids.
What an Inspiration!
What an amazing story of a young girl from a large family-- she's on American Idol this season! One of twelve, she comes from an adoptive family who have embraced children with Downs Syndrome. She is an inspiration!
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Happy Birthday Annalyn!
Today our Annalyn turned 12! Happy Birthday sweetheart!
Since we have alot going on during the week, we decided to keep it fairly simple tonight-- yet it was still nice. This Friday night we will continue on with the festivities.
Rachel made delicious brownies that we topped with ice-cream. Yum! She even decorated the kitchen with streamers while I ran errands.
Annalyn had the first piece.
Annalyn decided to open up a few presents tonight but saved the rest for Friday! Way more self-control than I would have!
Since we have alot going on during the week, we decided to keep it fairly simple tonight-- yet it was still nice. This Friday night we will continue on with the festivities.
Rachel made delicious brownies that we topped with ice-cream. Yum! She even decorated the kitchen with streamers while I ran errands.
Annalyn had the first piece.
Annalyn decided to open up a few presents tonight but saved the rest for Friday! Way more self-control than I would have!
We love you Annalyn!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
No Electricity
Spent a good portion of the day at the Occularist for Dennis' new prosthesis. During the last stretch of the process the electricity went out-- lots of rainstorms going on here in California. We have to go back to the office on Thursday! Can't wait! I will also get to visit with my Mom and sister more while we are up in that neck of the woods.
Julia is loving her vocal and piano classes! This is like her seventh year of piano-- but it is her very first vocal class. She is having fun!
Adam is continuing on with electric guitar and Andrew still takes piano classes with Grandma. Grandma is teaching Jonny and whoever else wants to learn so we will see who takes a serious interest next!
I am sad to report that Jonny is running a fever so I am off to bed where I have him tucked in nice and cozy!
Good night!
Julia is loving her vocal and piano classes! This is like her seventh year of piano-- but it is her very first vocal class. She is having fun!
Adam is continuing on with electric guitar and Andrew still takes piano classes with Grandma. Grandma is teaching Jonny and whoever else wants to learn so we will see who takes a serious interest next!
I am sad to report that Jonny is running a fever so I am off to bed where I have him tucked in nice and cozy!
Good night!
In Plain English
"Work for the Lord. The pay isn't much, but the retirement plan is out of this world!"
~~Suzanne
I have been reading more. Honestly, logistically I don't know how I find the time, but the Lord is doing some amazing things. When I started a new devotional book with short stories that I could include in my now almost daily devotionals with the kids, I ran across this saying and nearly jumped out of my seat with excitement. Learning more and more about God's desire for our lives and the intimate relationship He wants with His children fills me with something that I just can't describe with words, but I also love when I find a quote from someone that explains the bible in plain English.
Isn't it so true?
Thank you God for everything!
~~Suzanne
I have been reading more. Honestly, logistically I don't know how I find the time, but the Lord is doing some amazing things. When I started a new devotional book with short stories that I could include in my now almost daily devotionals with the kids, I ran across this saying and nearly jumped out of my seat with excitement. Learning more and more about God's desire for our lives and the intimate relationship He wants with His children fills me with something that I just can't describe with words, but I also love when I find a quote from someone that explains the bible in plain English.
Isn't it so true?
Thank you God for everything!
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Oh Yes We are!
Alright, it is time to just spit it out!
Yes, we have decided to adopt again!
We are very excited to have started the process last week to adopt an older child.
We don't know who it will be-- but we are sure God does!
Surely this seems absolutely crazy to some but we wouldn't have it any other way!
Come follow our journey.
Yes, we have decided to adopt again!
We are very excited to have started the process last week to adopt an older child.
We don't know who it will be-- but we are sure God does!
Surely this seems absolutely crazy to some but we wouldn't have it any other way!
Come follow our journey.
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Lazy Saturday
We love playing with the Guinea Pigs. They make the cutest sounds.
Alex and Dennis are slowly learning their shapes and colors. Alex can write his name too!
This weekend the kids had a few friends over. I guess we better get used to how it feels having a few more in the house. :)
Friday, January 15, 2010
You Have To Be Certain
In the last month, I have gotten five six different emails from adoptive families who wanted to discuss disrupting. Out of those five, three are moving forward with looking for new placements. So what about the other two families? I have managed to say something that has made them pause and rethink things-- at least a little bit more before making a final decision.
Praise the Lord for that. Because the last thing I want to do is to help a family move forward with finding a new family for their child if they are not 110% certain that they are ready to do so. In the last six months, I have seen two families change their minds and take the child they disrupted back into their home. That was heart breaking to see not to mention the fact that I got very upset thinking about how the child and new family must feel.
Choosing to disrupt your adopted child in order to give them a fresh start with a new family that will provide what you are unable to is one situation where I can see the selflessness in the disrupting family that others don't always see (like loving someone enough to let them go in order for them to be happy)---- but seeing the disrupting family change their mind and turn that child's life upside down yet again is incredibly cruel in my opinion-- not to mention selfish.
If you decide to disrupt and your child becomes someone else's child (maybe not legally but in their hearts and minds) then you should not change your mind later. Sure, you might regret your decision, but what is done is done and you should allow your child and that new family to move forward with their new lives.
Just stop and think about it. What will the child think? How would they feel?How will they ever be made to feel secure in your home again? Not to mention that they will feel like they are being abandoned by their new family--- like they are the ones sending them back. The thought really just breaks my heart actually.
I've said it once and I'll say it again-- disruption is not an easy decision. It is not the easy way out for adoptive parents who have to live with this decision for the rest of their lives.
With that said--- it is one decision that I think that once you make it--- you should stick to it once you have your child placed.
That is why I really push for families to verbalize that they are 110% DONE. If there is one teeny tiny part of you that is hopeful that things will get better or wants to try something new then do not disrupt. Just like it only takes a teeny-tiny mustard seed to plant a person's faith, it only takes a teeny-tiny decision to keep trying to change things around for the better.
Believe me, I have been blessed to see this happen over and over and over. For every three families that contact me about disrupting, two of them manage to change things around because they had just enough oomph to try one more time.
Sometimes that oomph comes from deep inside your gut and goes against every single rational thought out there. But it has happened and I have seen it.
For those that are struggling today-- I encourage you to try one more time. Reach out and find someone to encourage you, support you, and just hear you out. Sometimes that is all that you need.
Big big hugs today. Don't think about tomorrow's troubles---- today has enough of their own. Take one day at a time with your children and be thankful when you lay your head down on your pillow that you have gotten through today.
*** 15 year old boy has a respite family and 12 year old girl has two very interested families.
Praise the Lord for that. Because the last thing I want to do is to help a family move forward with finding a new family for their child if they are not 110% certain that they are ready to do so. In the last six months, I have seen two families change their minds and take the child they disrupted back into their home. That was heart breaking to see not to mention the fact that I got very upset thinking about how the child and new family must feel.
Choosing to disrupt your adopted child in order to give them a fresh start with a new family that will provide what you are unable to is one situation where I can see the selflessness in the disrupting family that others don't always see (like loving someone enough to let them go in order for them to be happy)---- but seeing the disrupting family change their mind and turn that child's life upside down yet again is incredibly cruel in my opinion-- not to mention selfish.
If you decide to disrupt and your child becomes someone else's child (maybe not legally but in their hearts and minds) then you should not change your mind later. Sure, you might regret your decision, but what is done is done and you should allow your child and that new family to move forward with their new lives.
Just stop and think about it. What will the child think? How would they feel?How will they ever be made to feel secure in your home again? Not to mention that they will feel like they are being abandoned by their new family--- like they are the ones sending them back. The thought really just breaks my heart actually.
I've said it once and I'll say it again-- disruption is not an easy decision. It is not the easy way out for adoptive parents who have to live with this decision for the rest of their lives.
With that said--- it is one decision that I think that once you make it--- you should stick to it once you have your child placed.
That is why I really push for families to verbalize that they are 110% DONE. If there is one teeny tiny part of you that is hopeful that things will get better or wants to try something new then do not disrupt. Just like it only takes a teeny-tiny mustard seed to plant a person's faith, it only takes a teeny-tiny decision to keep trying to change things around for the better.
Believe me, I have been blessed to see this happen over and over and over. For every three families that contact me about disrupting, two of them manage to change things around because they had just enough oomph to try one more time.
Sometimes that oomph comes from deep inside your gut and goes against every single rational thought out there. But it has happened and I have seen it.
For those that are struggling today-- I encourage you to try one more time. Reach out and find someone to encourage you, support you, and just hear you out. Sometimes that is all that you need.
Big big hugs today. Don't think about tomorrow's troubles---- today has enough of their own. Take one day at a time with your children and be thankful when you lay your head down on your pillow that you have gotten through today.
*** 15 year old boy has a respite family and 12 year old girl has two very interested families.
Short Update on Dennis
Dennis was awesome at the plastic surgeon's office today. They cut and removed the nylon stitches and never cried like he did last time! I was so proud of him! He also had his ears checked and is now back on antibiotic drops to clear one of the tubes. If his hearing doesn't improve at his next appointment he will most likely be getting hearing aids of some sort.
Next Tuesday Dennis will get his new prosthetic eye. Maybe Dennis won't cry there either!
We shall see!
Next Tuesday Dennis will get his new prosthetic eye. Maybe Dennis won't cry there either!
We shall see!
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Growing Everyday!
Rachel tried out for Soccer.
Caleb has a basketball tournament this Saturday.
Dennis no longer uses his little plastic potty.
Anna no longer takes growth hormone shots yet is projected to be 5' 1"! That is awesome compared to the 4'9" they originally estimated.
One of my children thought it would be okay to take three desserts to school, when they know the rule is one.
Sveta is counting money-- something we thought she may never do!
We have two new pets-- cute, furry Guinea Pigs!
I have began scrapbooking again! I sat down and went through all of my books with William and Andrew and was inspired to pick up the hobby again! My girls are doing it with me too!
I am loving my new NIV study bible given to me by my awesome hubby.
What is going on at your house?
Caleb has a basketball tournament this Saturday.
Dennis no longer uses his little plastic potty.
Anna no longer takes growth hormone shots yet is projected to be 5' 1"! That is awesome compared to the 4'9" they originally estimated.
One of my children thought it would be okay to take three desserts to school, when they know the rule is one.
Sveta is counting money-- something we thought she may never do!
We have two new pets-- cute, furry Guinea Pigs!
I have began scrapbooking again! I sat down and went through all of my books with William and Andrew and was inspired to pick up the hobby again! My girls are doing it with me too!
I am loving my new NIV study bible given to me by my awesome hubby.
What is going on at your house?
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Tuesday
Andrew, Anna, Jonny, and Dennis-- what a cute bunch!
Adam is my go to guy when I need something assembled. "So Mom, does this count as my chore?"
Rachel helped Sveta make her cell project for school. It turned out great!
Teenage boys--- they eat and eat! Basketball practice makes Caleb so hungry!
Monday, January 11, 2010
I Didn't Even Ask
I was cooking dinner and turned around to see who was behind me. There was Dennis wiping up the water on the floor from when Annalyn had unloaded the dishes. It was so cute I of course grabbed my camera.
I guess he sees me do this all too often. What a helpful 3 year old!
I guess he sees me do this all too often. What a helpful 3 year old!
Sunday, January 10, 2010
It Was Time
Last night I went and got a haircut. I was prepared to get only a trim like back in September, but was pleased to find out that I had the 10 inches needed to donate to Locks of Love.
My neck is a little cold, but I think I like the new look. :)
My neck is a little cold, but I think I like the new look. :)
Saturday, January 9, 2010
2009 Reed Video
A few years back I made a video music montage of our family... here is one for 2009. Wow---- what a year!
Friday, January 8, 2010
The Trooper
Everything went according to plan during surgery. His mold was poured for his new prosthetic eye and then he was operated on for a few hours. They got me immediately when he showed signs of waking up because they couldn't calm him down. He was breathing incredibly hard and he was pulling at everything. I was able to soothe him much easier than previous surgeries-- which was great for all us.
We were moved to a room before noon and after a dose of Morphine he dozed off back to sleep.
Kristen and Linda came and visited us-- only to find out the hospital was on strict lockdown due to the H1N1 virsus. They were able to linger outside our room and peak their heads in the door to say Hi to Dennis. Thanks for stopping by girls-- it was much to short!
It was obvious that Dennis did not want to be in the hospital and so I asked if we could go home if he showed signs that he was ready. The doctor okayed this and so we worked on getting Dennis to eat. He threw up a few times early on and once as late as 5 o'clock-- but he finally held food and drink down after that and wanted to sit up and go potty.
My Mom came out and stayed with us and pampered us-- which was wonderful. Thanks Mom!
We got home around 9pm. When I woke up, Dennis had pulled off his bandage (which was going to come off anyway) and was raring to go. He wanted to get up and play and eat and get back to his regular routine.
He was interested in seeing his owies and now understands why not to touch them.
The doctor essentially gave Dennis a face lift to bring cheek fat up where his right temple indents.
He will have much less of a bald spot too.
Dennis has been a love bug all day.
Praise God everything went so well!
Thursday, January 7, 2010
It Was No Easy Feat...
but we are home..... tonight instead of tomorrow. Praise God. Dennis will sleep so much better in our bed tonight. So will I.
BTW, he looks great! Even right after surgery.
BTW, he looks great! Even right after surgery.
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Whatever Brings Them Comfort
It is one of those nights when I know I should be trying to get some sleep.... yet I can't. In only five short hours, I need to get Dennis and myself up so that I can make sure we are at Children's Hospital by 5:30 in the morning. Tomorrow is another big day for him---- surgery is scheduled at 7:30. Ah, and so you now know precisely the reason why I can't sleep.
And so I will write about what has been heart.
Yesterday Annalyn and I attended a memorial service for a lovely woman who attended our church. Actually, we didn't know her very well, but Adam was asked to play bass for all 17 songs and so we went to show our support for not only the family but for our son too, who at just fourteen seems pretty amazing to me to be willing to put in so much time so that the service would be as beautiful as the woman's life it was celebrating.
Almost immediately I began to cry as the song, "It is Well" played during a video montage. I am a little ashamed to admit that I was thinking of my Father, not so much her. I just didn't know her well enough to be consumed with a sense of loss like I still feel for my Dad---- and it just came pouring out--- pretty much unable to be contained.
I thought her service was beautiful, and I left feeling in better spirits than I expected. It is without a doubt that she is dancing with Jesus--- and she is no longer in pain-- Hallelujah! What impacted me most was how so many people characterized her as one who proclaimed her love for Jesus. What an amazing gift for her to leave to her children-- at least I think so.
Since my Father passed away, it has been a high priority to talk more to my kids about God's unconditional love and grace that He has for all of us. I want my kids to have peace when I pass away and have no doubt about how much I love Jesus. And I have let them know that the most precious gift of all would be for each of them to walk a Christian life so that we can all be together again someday. Death is a temporary separation---- yet we will spend eternity with Jesus in heaven. I pray we all choose this path.
Another thing I talked to my older kids about was how I would like to be buried. Up until now, I was adamant about wanting to be cremated because it would involve the least amount of planning and I know it would be the least expensive. As I rationalized this, I failed to think about what my own kids might want. It wasn't until this memorial service that I realized that once I am gone--- everything done after my death is to comfort those that are still living-- and only those. And maybe it would bring my children comfort to see my body, and pick out my casket, and find just the right clothes, and be able to say goodbye to me with a kiss on my cheek. I know it comforted me to be able to squeeze his hand, rub his forehead, kiss his cheek, and ultimately bury my Dad.
If you would have attended my Dad's funeral I am sure you would have thought it was very nice. In my grief I couldn't really appreciate it then, but looking back, the way he was buried brought me peace and closure---- and I so want that for everyone who I leave behind.... especially my husband and children. What was very special about my Dad's funeral was that it felt like he was there because his body was there. I know his spirit was gone, but it still brought me comfort to see him. Come time we buried him, I actually watched him be lowered into the ground and then I watched his grave be filled with dirt. Not only did I throw a few handfuls of dirt, but I watched my sons shovel dirt to bury their Grandpa. Yes it was very sad, but at the same time it was so profound to see my children pay respect to my Father by laying him to rest. As we walked away, I had peace knowing that my Dad's burial was complete. It brought me comfort. As it should.
And so now, I have changed my mind about how I want to be buried. I would like my kids to do whatever will bring them comfort. Who knows what that will be when the time comes.
But honestly, I pray that it is God's will that we will first get to all grow old together and watch our family multiply through marriages and lots of grandchildren!
P.S. Dad, I miss you.
And so I will write about what has been heart.
Yesterday Annalyn and I attended a memorial service for a lovely woman who attended our church. Actually, we didn't know her very well, but Adam was asked to play bass for all 17 songs and so we went to show our support for not only the family but for our son too, who at just fourteen seems pretty amazing to me to be willing to put in so much time so that the service would be as beautiful as the woman's life it was celebrating.
Almost immediately I began to cry as the song, "It is Well" played during a video montage. I am a little ashamed to admit that I was thinking of my Father, not so much her. I just didn't know her well enough to be consumed with a sense of loss like I still feel for my Dad---- and it just came pouring out--- pretty much unable to be contained.
I thought her service was beautiful, and I left feeling in better spirits than I expected. It is without a doubt that she is dancing with Jesus--- and she is no longer in pain-- Hallelujah! What impacted me most was how so many people characterized her as one who proclaimed her love for Jesus. What an amazing gift for her to leave to her children-- at least I think so.
Since my Father passed away, it has been a high priority to talk more to my kids about God's unconditional love and grace that He has for all of us. I want my kids to have peace when I pass away and have no doubt about how much I love Jesus. And I have let them know that the most precious gift of all would be for each of them to walk a Christian life so that we can all be together again someday. Death is a temporary separation---- yet we will spend eternity with Jesus in heaven. I pray we all choose this path.
Another thing I talked to my older kids about was how I would like to be buried. Up until now, I was adamant about wanting to be cremated because it would involve the least amount of planning and I know it would be the least expensive. As I rationalized this, I failed to think about what my own kids might want. It wasn't until this memorial service that I realized that once I am gone--- everything done after my death is to comfort those that are still living-- and only those. And maybe it would bring my children comfort to see my body, and pick out my casket, and find just the right clothes, and be able to say goodbye to me with a kiss on my cheek. I know it comforted me to be able to squeeze his hand, rub his forehead, kiss his cheek, and ultimately bury my Dad.
If you would have attended my Dad's funeral I am sure you would have thought it was very nice. In my grief I couldn't really appreciate it then, but looking back, the way he was buried brought me peace and closure---- and I so want that for everyone who I leave behind.... especially my husband and children. What was very special about my Dad's funeral was that it felt like he was there because his body was there. I know his spirit was gone, but it still brought me comfort to see him. Come time we buried him, I actually watched him be lowered into the ground and then I watched his grave be filled with dirt. Not only did I throw a few handfuls of dirt, but I watched my sons shovel dirt to bury their Grandpa. Yes it was very sad, but at the same time it was so profound to see my children pay respect to my Father by laying him to rest. As we walked away, I had peace knowing that my Dad's burial was complete. It brought me comfort. As it should.
And so now, I have changed my mind about how I want to be buried. I would like my kids to do whatever will bring them comfort. Who knows what that will be when the time comes.
But honestly, I pray that it is God's will that we will first get to all grow old together and watch our family multiply through marriages and lots of grandchildren!
P.S. Dad, I miss you.
Alex's Journey to Walking
Alex is making so much progress. While he has not officially started Physical Therapy yet, he has been seen by two different therapists who showed me some things that I can do at home with him. We do therapy throughout the day--- and he has shown tremendous progress. In the beginning he could not balance whatsoever, let alone stand or walk-- he can do all three now. He used to cross over his legs when he used his walker but stretching exercises got him to keep his legs apart when he walks. I am helping him to bear weight on each leg separately so that he can carry his own weight. This process has not been easy for any of us-- but the progress he has made is evidence of how strong and amazing Alex is! Take a look at how Alex is getting around these days.
There has been a huge change in such a short time--- way to go Alex!
There has been a huge change in such a short time--- way to go Alex!
Guess What We are Making for Dinner Tonight?
With the scalloped potatoes, I served a spiral sliced ham (compliments of Grandma and Grandpa) and green beans. And guess what---- there is still lots of left over ham.
Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy!
Guess what we are making for dinner?
Wanna come?
Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy!
Guess what we are making for dinner?
Wanna come?
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
A Family That Cooks (And Prays) Together Stays Together
One of the things I made for dinner tonight was Scalloped Potatoes. They are Adam's favorite! So, I had him peel the potatoes. Next, Julia sliced them. And little ol' Dennis helped me layer the potatoes.
Annalyn grated the cheese.
They are a fairly simple to make. I don't really have a recipe but I can tell you what I used this time. I used 8 potatoes, 2 cups of homemade white sauce, 1/4 cup butter, and 1/2 pound of medium cheddar cheese. Simply layer the ingredients and cook at 350 for 1 1/2 hours.
I usually cover or uncover the potatoes half way through baking them (depending on how I started out cooking them) to keep them from turning out like this. I didn't do it this time because I didn't want the cheese to stick to the foil. Oops. And you want another confession? The potatoes in the very middle didn't cook completely. Nothing makes a Mom feel better than hearing one of their kids say-- Mom, did you know that my potatoes are still crunchy?
Annalyn grated the cheese.
They are a fairly simple to make. I don't really have a recipe but I can tell you what I used this time. I used 8 potatoes, 2 cups of homemade white sauce, 1/4 cup butter, and 1/2 pound of medium cheddar cheese. Simply layer the ingredients and cook at 350 for 1 1/2 hours.
I usually cover or uncover the potatoes half way through baking them (depending on how I started out cooking them) to keep them from turning out like this. I didn't do it this time because I didn't want the cheese to stick to the foil. Oops. And you want another confession? The potatoes in the very middle didn't cook completely. Nothing makes a Mom feel better than hearing one of their kids say-- Mom, did you know that my potatoes are still crunchy?
Oh well, you can't win them all.
This month is a busy one for John at work. After coming home later than usual, he ate, did bible study time with the kids and then headed back to work.
This month is a busy one for John at work. After coming home later than usual, he ate, did bible study time with the kids and then headed back to work.
I am so thankful that we have such a spiritual leader heading up our family.
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