Thursday, September 16, 2010

Complete Healing is Taking Place

Since we are moving soon, I've been trying to tie up loose ends which includes saying our good-byes to family and friends that we are leaving. Tonight we had some very special company. Rachel's two biological brothers came over with their family for a visit. They also brought a foreign exchange student from Western Ukraine. It was an awesome awesome visit-- though way too short!

Max who speaks fluent Ukrainian, Russian , and English was able to talk to Anastasia and Paul who at first seemed very shy speaking to him. They quickly opened up and told him all about us and their new lives. He reassured me that they are very happy here-- and do not miss the orphanage one bit. He was able to clarify a few things for me, but the kids said that they already knew what I was trying to say. I guess my Russian isn't too bad afterall. ;)

It was incredible to watch Rachel sit and visit with her older brother. It was incredible to sit and watch him enjoy her company right back. The progress our two families have made separately has allowed this sibling group to heal, learn to love, and forgive, and move forward. It was not an easy road, nor did it happen overnight-- but it did happen, mostly because we just never gave up.
God's grace is so apparent in the smiles of these three beautiful kids.

Adoption is such a beautiful thing to me. So is friendship. So is forgiveness.

Tonight was wonderful.
P.S. I choose four colors-- Pale Wheat, Macchiato, French Lilac, and Cricket. I told you I couldn't decide!

23 comments:

Anonymous said...

How wonderful! So glad for Rachel and her brothers.

Nina

Rita from Spain said...

Awesome!

Sher said...

Love the picture of the the three of them. Colours sound amazing.

Tina in CT said...

How wonderful for Rachel and her two brothers that their relationship has solidified and healed. I sure you and John were a major part of it along the way.

Happy packing. I was surprised that the company is not moving you which provides packing.

Penny said...

They really are gorgeous kids~ Rachel is a knockout. John better get the gun loaded and ready! ;)
It's wonderful that she is able to have a healthy relationship with her biological brothers.
Adoption, to me, is as much or more a miracle than giving birth. It blows me away when God allows one woman to carry a baby specifically for another woman to become his/her mom. My principal and secretary at work both have adopted children. The secretary's son has two biological sisters that were adopted by another family, but he and his two sisters visit and their children all know each other as aunt, uncle, and cousins. It's wonderful that both families put their children before any insecurities they may have had and allowed these children to form a relationship outside of their adopted families. God bless people like them and you and John. :)

Heather said...

God is SO good!

Mike and Christie said...

That is so wonderful. They boys look fantastic! Of course Rachel does!

Toni said...

What a wonderful story. It is a great thing that the two families could work through everything and have the three siblings be able to have a healthy relationship. It made my day to see the pictures of their smiling faces. Beautiful kids.
Rachel is so beautiful and just looks like she has an inner peace about her.

Kristina said...

Rachel and her brothers look so muck alike
It's probably wonderful for you to see them interact :)
And you choose lilac :D I love it
So nice to see that the biological siblings get along after what they've been through :)

"Are These Kids All Yours?" said...

So glad they are healing! How wonderful...not easy I am sure. :)

Kevin and Pam said...

What a testimony and encouragement!

Rachel said...

How nice to have a visit from Rachel's bio brothers! Hopefully they never lose touch w/ each other. How far away from them will you be when you move?
How neat also, that the exchange student could talk with Anastasia and Paul, and clarify some things for you. :)

Kristen said...

I am so happy to hear this. You know, those kids are so good looking. Rachel just gets more and more beautiful as time goes by.

Jamey & Catherine said...

Its amazing how alike Rachel and her biological brothers are. They all have the same beautiful smiles. :) Wonderful to see them interact!
Will you post pics of the newly painted house when its done? The colors sound great!!!

Renee said...

Praise Jesus!!! He is good!
Joel 2:25~

Holly said...

Amazing!
You are blessed to be part of it!
What in the world is the color "cricket" black???

Jefferson Hunt said...

Rachel and her brothers are very pretty and handsome.

What is cricket, black?

Roxy said...

"Adoption is such a beautiful thing to me. So is friendship. So is forgiveness."
Only love and experience can write such a beautiful quote.

Anonymous said...

I am a lurker here mostly. I just wanted to say that this is, to me, the happiest story I've ever seen on your blog - and I do love your blog. Thanks for sharing.

Stefanie and Bill said...

What beautiful children. So glad the healing has come and you and they did not give up.

Expat Mom said...

They all look very happy! I am so glad to hear that they are working things out. Thanks for sharing the pics, they are all gorgeous kids.

Martha said...

I too am touched by the photo of Rachel and her brothers. It's a beautiful thing. I am blessed by your heart to see their relationship healed.

Connie said...

This is absolutely wonderful!!!

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