Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Two Lovely Pizzas Sitting in An Oven

Anastasia and Paul are our first biological siblings that we have adopted. Since we didn't have experience with adopting siblings before, I did entertain the thought that perhaps they would band together with an us against them mentality. I couldn't have been more wrong-- they have totally accepted all of us, and have even gone their own separate ways to do their own thing at times-- and yet they have stayed close just as I expected. This has been incredible to watch because they have been an example of balance to me---- Hmm, imagine that-- kids teaching parents a thing or two.

In the past day or two I have noticed how both of them are calling each other Paul and Anastasia. After taking the time to explain how Alex had been Alosha and Dennis had been Denise a light bulb went off for them and that was that. Still-- there is the occasional slip with a Pasha or Nastya by anyone of us-- but not too often.

I am thrilled with how much they have blossomed in the last month. They have incredible smiles and lovely personalities. Up until last night Paul would turn and give me his cheek every time I went to kiss him goodnight. I didn't mention anything about it but it is something I noticed. I knew he watched me kiss all of his brothers and sisters goodnight with a quick peck on the lips so last night I asked him to look at me when I kissed him goodnight and he kissed me back shyly. I told him thank you, hugged him playfully, and tucked him in. Tonight was the same-- another big step in our attachment as Mother and son.

Anastasia saw Annalyn and I taking pictures yesterday and she asked if I would take pictures of her. Of course-- just what I was waiting for her to ask!

And soon after, Paul saw me taking pictures of Anastasia and didn't want to be left out.

They are too funny!

The day that Anastasia first swam in the deep end by herself she was only willing to do it twice and then she was done. Unlike Paul who began swimming mostly in the deep end once he knew he could swim, Anastasia went back to the shallow end-- where she was obviously more comfortable. I didn't have time to grab the camera that day. The next day I insisted she practice at least once and was happy to see when she practiced three times but still not enough time for me to grab the camera. Today she practiced once by herself knowing that I wanted a picture of her and then again with me swimming next to her. Each time she swims I see that her breathing is calmer and calmer like she is becoming less scared and more confident in her ability. Seeing this picture brought a huge smile to her face.

Tonight we made homemade pizza. Anna was amazed how much the yeast grew in the warm water. They girls were excited how the dough tripled in size before we rolled it out.

Adam had worship practice at church so he was the first to make his pizza after he saw me roll out one for Alex and Dennis to share.

We had lots of fresh toppings to add to our pizzas and not one of them turned out the same!

Each of the kids enjoyed making their own and learned a lesson in patience as we cooked only three at a time.



After Alex ate his pizza, he ate a serving of leftover Shrimp Pasta. What a big boy!

Both Sveta and Andrew commented how this was the best pizza they have ever eaten!

Last but not least-- Mom and Dad's pizza cooking in the oven together. How sweet. Can you tell which one is the girl pizza?

10 inspiring thoughts:

Mike and Christie said...

What a nice glimpse of your last few daya. The kids are adorable.

So, if it were me, the girl pizza would be on the right. :)

Conethia and Jim Bob said...

Our kids (bio. siblings from Ukraine) are the same way. They are inseperable yet go their own way occasionally. They never bonded together although I, too, didn't know what to expect initially. A and P look so happy and healthy. Enjoy the rest of summer. Yummy looking pizzas.

Charissa said...

Oh my goodness, that girl needs to be a ballet dancer!

Lisa said...

It looks like the kids are getting more comfortable by the day. Huge blessing from God that is.

The Pizza's look yummy, we do the same thing here but I do cheat and buy the ready made crusts.

Sarah xoxo said...

as a gymnastics coach I am begging you, please please please put Nastia in gymnastics classes!!!

Annie said...

Gosh, darn! I'm hungry too!!! Too bad for me; no pizza.

Jennifer said...

I've never commented before but I'm intrigued... why is it so important for Paul and Anastasia to go by those names? Nastya (spelled Nastia) is the name of a famous US gymnast so a lot of people would already be familiar with it... just curious!

You have a beautiful family!

Peta G said...

Love the photo of Sveta, she has grown so much since I first started reading your blog just over 2yrs ago now..She is a beautiful young lady with an infectious smile.

If Anastasia doesn't want to do gymnastics try track. My skinny/flexible Hannah loves long distance running and she is really good at it..

Anyway hope you have a great day

16 blessings'mom said...

Your pizza must be the one on the right...those hot pepper rings are guy things, right? We have found making pizzas with the kids is really fun, too. It is an affordable meal, we had it almost every Saturday night this past winter. And about Anastasia and Paul: I am so very thankful for you that they have settled in so well. They look happy and the way the other children enlarge their own hearts to love more siblings is a blessing,too. Not without the trials, I am sure, but God is good! Thanks for sharing!

della

connie_anne said...

My thoughts on adopting biological siblings is that because they already have that bond with each other they feel safer then a single child would. Having had everything else they know stripped away from them they still have each other and were never completely alone. I think that make them actually bond to a new family quicker then a single child might. If we adopt again it will be siblings again. Though in some ways it is harder to "take on" two it seems to make the whole attachment process a bit easier.
OK, enough of my rambling. Paul and Anastasia and looking wonderful, and soooo happy.......

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