Alex had his big day at the Spina Bifida clinic this past Thursday. It was very informative to say the least. Everyone was so nice and organized--- and made Alex feel very comfortable. He is 38 inches tall and still around 32 pounds. We saw many different medical professionals but I am going to focus on just three--- the Medical Director of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation, the Urologist, and the Neuro-Surgeon.
First we saw the MD of Physical Medicine. She was very friendly and encouraging. She diagnosed his SB as Lumbar 4-5 level myelomeningocele. This describes the level the lesion is at on his spine. Alex's happens to be near his tailbone. Anyway, she is pretty confident he is going to walk---- unassisted remains to be seen. She has prescribed AFOs (ankle foot orthosis) which are braces that will support his legs so that he can walk better. Alex is also going to be wearing a knee immobilizer at bedtime on his left knee to try and straighten the leg out. Alex is going to be getting Physical Therapy (PT) as soon as it is lined up and will be evaluated for Occupational Therapy (OT) . She explained how Alex would start out with a walker and AFOs and hopefully move on from there to fore-arm crutches and finally no crutches! Of course there are no guarantees, but her optimism was very inspiring! Only downside to our meeting was when I learned that she didn't see any reason to refer Alex to an Orthopaedist for his dislocated hip. I wasn't satisfied with that so I have emailed her for clarification.
The Urologist had me on information overload but gave me lots of handouts to read at home. Basically she said keeping an eye on Alex's kidneys was the most important thing to do in regards to his SB. His Ultra-sound and x-rays show that Alex's left kidney is smaller than his right. He has a neurogenic bladder which makes emptying his bladder difficult which can lead to kidney problems. I will be learning to catheterize Alex very soon which will hopefully make him continent. In many situations cathing alone does not solve the problem but without a case history the Urologist does not want to jump into doing any surgeries prematurely. I agree. She has also put him on a low dose antibiotic for his grade one in severity reflux. Hopefully the cathing will take the pressure of his full bladder and take care of the little bit of reflux he has. I asked her about the ACE procedure for bowel continence, but she wants to hold off until she can reevaluate Alex in six months. By then we should have more answers. So until then we are going to do antibiotics and catheterization. The main thing we need to keep in mind here is whether we just do the bare minimum to keep him healthy or if we go down the path of doing whatever is necessary to make him urinary and fecal continent. Surgery will most likely be required to make one or both happen-- something that should not be taken lightly. Above all, I think that Alex would like to be able to achieve these two milestones to help with self confidence and social independence. I think in Alex's case, the benefits associated with these kinds of surgeries far outweigh the risks.
Lastly, we saw the neuro surgeon who said that Alex does not have hydrocephalus. Yes, his ventricles are enlarged but he in no way shape or form as water on the brain. Praise the Lord. However, he does have a tethered spine which is not clear when it happened. Alex shows no regression from this tethered spine. In fact he is thriving and well on his way to being ambulatory. Yet, the neurosurgeon would like to operate. I asked her some tough questions.
"What are the benefits?" It may improve his mobility.
"Anything else?" No, not really.
"What are the risks?" He can get hydrocephalus resulting in needing a shunt that very likely will need one or two revisions in his childhood. He can also become non-ambulatory after the surgery.
"If this was your son, would you you fix it?" She said yes.
As of right now, we are leaning toward not fixing the tethered cord unless it begins to cause problems. It doesn't appear to be, so why fix something that isn't broke?
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typically they will not fix a dislocated hip. it will not stay in the socket (which is why it is out). our daughters is dislocated and we have not found a doc yet that will do anything about it. we've been to 4-5.
as far as the tethered cord. do some research. our daughter did not have hers done right away (the docs decision) now she has issues from it, even though it has now been done.
just my .02
Wow, what a lot to digest. There is some really hopeful stuff in there. God willing, Alex may overcome a lot yet.
LF has a tethered cord too. Our Neurosurgeon said that it's more common than not when you've had surgery to fix a myelomeningocele - you stuff the nerves back inside and then close up the hole, but the cord sticks to the scar tissue. He doesn't want to operate on LF's unless it gets so severe she can't sit (walking not an option for her, her lesion is higher), and siad that if they do operate, they then get new scar tissue which of course the cord can then stick to again...
It sounds as though we may be travelling similar journeys towards various bowel and bladder surgeries. With LF we're holding off for a few years because what we have at the moment is workable and doesn't cause her problems, so really this is something that would make life better rather than something essential. By waiting a while we hope she'll be able to participate in the decision - and also be able to manage the stomas herself right from the start.
Not suggesting that's what you should do by the way, just sharing where we are and why!
Yes you are right, you sure did learn a lot from the visit to the Spina Bifida Clinic. I am glad that so many things are being addressed for Alex. It sure would be a boost to his confidence I agree to have a surgery and be more independant as the outcome, but waiting for re-evaluations in a few months is definatly a smart decision.
Catherine
Hips are a tough thing in people with SB. Typically the bones are formed a bit different and the socket is actually shallow if that makes sense. Sometimes my babies are in, sometimes they are out- sometimes one is in and one is out. They won't do anything for that because there isn't anything that can be done to make it perfect all the time with the loss of sensation etc. it adds another layer of complication.
My daughters are not out of place but its very common for people with SB. Let me know if you have any questions about cathing etc. It was really hard when we first started getting into a good routine and we had some issues with UTI's and trying new products and cath kits to go along with the catheters. Also chewable cranberry can help keep the bacteria to a minimum.
That is great news about the hydrocephalus! Praying about the tethered cord. My NS says that ALL children with SB have a tethered cord. Its when things are affected that you start to worry. Since you haven't been with your son since birth it would be hard to know how its affecting him right now. It can affect the bladder/bowels and of course movement, sensation, balance etc.
Praying for your family!
Blessings,
Sarah
Way to go Christine! It's so hard to ask all the right questions and going back to get clarification is so good. I will continue to pray for you as you and your husband seek God's guidance regarding surgeries, therapies and CARE for Alex. It can be so overwhelming. I'm so glad it was a good day!
Hi Christine! I have a girl with some of the same issues. From what I've read about tethered cord, the tethering often causes ongoing neuro damage which manifests in poorer lower limb, bladder, and bowel control. It can be a progressive thing, so the younger it's taken care of the better. Untethering is simple and has very few complications. It's one of the root causes of the bowel and bladder and walking symptoms. If I were you, I would pray about knocking out that cause first.
Hi Christine! I have followed your blog for a long time now and have replied but not recently. LOL!!
You might want to get an opinion from a pediatric Orthopedic surgeon regarding his hip dislocation even with the PM Doctor does not feel he needs it. After all that really is not her specialty and she may not know about any new information regarding it.
Regarding the tethered Spinal Cord! I would definitely be seaking a second opinion for that. I am not an expert and I know I have not worked around kids for a few years now, but if I remember correctly it can cause neurological function to deteriorate as the child gets older and can cause problems with bladder and bowel control.
Sorry not trying to tell you what to do but I just had to say something. What I read did not sound like what I had heard in the past.
Also I have a friend that her daughter just had the surgery for tethered spinal cord about a month ago and she has done great after it.
Please at least think about it.
Love,
Sheila
Wow, what a big day! I don't comment often but I read every post. Sounds like you learned a lot and have a lot of food for thought! That's so encouraging that they think he will walk independently some day! Fantastic!!
Give Alex a big hug from his Aunt Missy!
I dont know anything about spinal cords i do think that drs, dont normally suggest and operation for no reason though so i would push her for information before you have to make any kind of decsion. Hope you find your answers. Great news that Alex may be walking, that would be wonderful xx
I love that last question - "If this was your son would you fix it?" THAT is the level of information you want.
One thing I've learned about doctors is that they are never optimistic. nd they always seem to overplay the possibility of problems. Of course, if there IS a problem, it has not been overplayed for you, but I think just HEARING about the possible problem, when there is say a 5% risk of it occuring, overplays it. I realize, in some sense, they are covering their behinds.
Anyway, I agree totally with your judgement about the surgeries for continence. If he was an adult, he might weigh things differently...but the social ramifications for a child are so important. Being able to mix with friends and do things, without that anxiety, will go a long way toward assisting his social health, and that's important, too.
Thanks for the update. I bet you went to bed with your mind buzzing.
It sounds like you have some major decisions ahead. Praying wisdom for you.
Great news about Alex walking! I know that was a relief to you. We too have been down the physical therapy road with our son who has down syndrome. He walked at age 2 1/2. What a triumph!
Christine, what a blessing that you have such a clinic within your reach! Where I live in Florida, unfortunately, the medical is not the best so if something serious comes up we would have to travel.
Wishing you many, many blessings and thank you for sharing.
Hey Christine,
I have a few adult clients with SB, some who have had surgery for incontinence and some who have not. I will get you all the info of the pros and cons. Sounds like you have a really great clinic, PRAISE GOD!
It is great that you are getting so many answers, even though they open the doors to so many more questions. Alex has only been home a little while so I would wait to put him through any surgeries, unless they are totally necessary. Let him feel your love, become even healthier, and thrive even more and then go back and revisit any surgery. Just my thoughts. He looks great!
Melissa
Some really tough things to decide and figure out! Praying for you as you make decisions for the cutie pie!
Welcome to the world of orthopedics. :)
The only reason to fix a dislocated hip is if it impairs walking, causes pain, or moves in and out causing further degeneration of the joint.
I will say what our ortho and prosthetist told us: Less is more.
Many times, doing to much,can cause more problems in the long run. You are right. If he can work with his spine as is, so be it. Many times these kids present more and more complications and are referred to as "a cadillac kid". "too much done".
It sounds like you are taking things in stride. Good for you.
Don't jump to do anything invasive unless it is necessary. Alex will be better off in the end.
It is hard sometimes to remember, that these surgeries take months and sometimes over a year to heal from, and in the mean time, he still needs to be a child and play.
My daughter has Spina Biffida occulta and deals with very few issues so I hesitate to compare . . . but we have yearly checks for tethering because they are concerned that as she grows or goes through a growth spurt it can cause real problems. If it was my child I would untether it . . . but of course he isn't mine.
Lots of prayers . . .
So, my question is this...Had Alex been adopted earlier (infant or young toddler) or born in the US...could therapies and surgery have helped him develop closer to normal?? What I really want to know is...Is there a way to get these special needs babies help earlier via medical visa??? I am SO on board with a program like that. I would foster or host a baby in a situation like that.
wow, i'm on information overload as well! you guys will make the right decisions and I pray Alex will be walking with NO crutches!
Thanks for sharing all the news from Spina Bifida Clinic. My former best friends son has sb and I have in the past been very involved in his care and so I have a special place in my heart for all of this. I will be praying and can't wait to hear good reports of him taking off walking! :)
Blessings,
Tami
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A lot of information and tough decisions to make. I am praying for you and Alex. I came across this article that may help you in making your decision about the tethered cord surgery
http://www.spineuniverse.com/displayarticle.php/spina-bifida-3139.html
Best of luck.
As parents, we always want to do what is best for our children, yet the decisions are not always easy or clear. Research and prayer will show you what is best for Alex. Praise God we live in a country where we DO have such options.
Wow! Sounds like you got a lot of great information.
I, too, would be reluctant to move on any nuero-surgery. I had a friend of the family who had a horrible time with a shunt. It killed her slowly over sevral years. Just one awful experience, but I got the shivers when I read the word 'shunt' in your post.
What a comprehensive update. Thanks, it is interesting to read about Alex's medical needs and what can be done to help him. God bless you in making decisions!
We also adopted a son with SB. One additional thing to consider regarding continence surgery. There are new surgeries esp. for the bladder. At this point it is unlikely to get one however, the main point is that if you choose the "older" surgery now you may lose his chance for the "new" surgery down the road. If you "rewire" him now he may not be able to be "rewired" again in the future when the surgeries are most likely improved.
for example:http://health.mytelus.com/channel_health_news_details.asp?news_id=16667&channel_id=2046
Sounds like a full on day. You certainly have some huge decisions to make.
You definitely have some tough decisions! Good for you for staying informed and asking the tough questions. Good luck on whatever you decide!
It takes a determined mom to raise children - sometimes we need a dog-with-a-bone determination to make good decisions for our children - and Faith and Hope that God is leading us step by step!
I have an award to encourage you. It is an award that recognizes standing up for our values, what we believe, and implementing those values. You are an inspiration!
I am so glad to have found your post :O) We were on our way to our first appts with specialists at our spina bifida clinic and unfortunately hit a deer going 65 on the highway this past Monday... they are so amazing though that all the appts have been rescheduled for this coming Monday.
I'm very curious to know the reason you are not being referred to the pediatric orthopedist. I haven't read your entire blog, so I don't know how old Alex is... but my girl (just adopted from China) is almost 4 and has a severely dislocated left hip and is so motivated to try to walk - of course, she has a host of other issues (ortho) as well to deal with, contractures, etc and her right leg is basically paralyzed. But P.T. has said they are fairly certain she'll be able to walk on hand crutches.
I wish you all the very best and keep being the advocate you already are for him- question about that hip!!
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