Family has been in and out of our home all week---- what a nice thing this has been. This is the first holiday where all of my kids handled the stress and excitement with ease
compared to past holidays. I am really proud of them. Since adopting, I have learned to not make such a fuss over holidays--- and I refuse to change my parenting anymore in order to mask my children's behavior if they did act out. I used to let the little things slide to save face with my relatives, but I soon realized that my children suffered for it. Yes, my children handled this Thanksgiving very well, but that doesn't mean that two of them didn't have timeouts or early bedtimes that night. When I say they handled the stress of the holiday well, I simply and triumphantly mean that there were no meltdowns, no sour-puss expressions, and no outrageous behavior indicative of any of them being on overload. YEAH!!!!
I have no doubt that all of my children are bonded to me, but that doesn't mean that I no longer do things that promote bonding.... especially during the holidays. I am forever finding the smallest things to make everlasting memories and strong ties to our family---- even something as simple as seeding pomegranates. This was one of my favorite times with my girls this Thanksgiving vacation because we talked, laughed when we squirted each other, and enjoyed the fruits of our labor.

Since we have so many pomegranates to seed, we have been having these pomegranate parties daily for the last four days. Different family members join us everyday. Today it was my favoritest Aunt in the whole wide world.
Another thing we have been doing together is working on
Rachel's and
Julia's new blogs. If you get a chance, please go and leave them a comment..... I know that they would love it. And why do they get to have a blog? They have proven to me that they are responsible and they are the only ones that have really expressed an interest.